Message Overview

We built the Harei At communication system with your privacy and security in mind. That is why our messaging system uses the latest security features available, including SSL encryption. Sending, reading and replying to messages is reserved for Premium members. 


Accessing Your Messages

You can access your message center from your dashboard quickly by clicking on the ‘Messages’ link located on the navigation bar or the red communication notification in the top right of the page. (This notifiication only appears when you have received communication from another member.) You can view any messages you have received or sent by either clicking the red notification you will see in the top right of the page, or by hovering over “Messages” in the navigation bar and selecting either "Inbox" or "Sent Messages."


Your Inbox

The inbox is not available to non-premium members. We allow you to search through our members, upload photos, see other members photos, fill out and update your profile as often as you'd like, pass unlimited notes, send 1 free message per user, receive messages and view the profile of the person who has messaged you, as well as receive email notifications when you have been contacted by another member, all with the free basic profile. We allow you this number of privileges so that when you do make the decision to upgrade, you are comfortable and confident in your decision. We ask you to keep in mind that every profile, profile update and profile photo is screened and approved manually to ensure (to the best of our ability) that our members are marriage minded members of the observant Jewish community. With all the effort we put in to create a productive, easy to use environment for like-minded people to meet one another, we do require a membership to read and reply to messages on the site.


Inbox access is reserved for Premium Members. Once in a message, you will be able to message anybody you have recently viewed as well as continue any other conversations.

Sending A Message

When you decide you would like to send a message to a member you are interested in, you use the "message" area on their profile.

You will see a confirmation on the top of the next page in green when your message has been sent.

Congratulations! You have sent your message!